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新人必知!【上头】结婚意义重大的礼节!
新人必知!【上头】结婚意义重大的礼节。

比起古时,今天的中式婚礼已经简化很多,但仍然有一些传统习俗保留了下来,比如母亲为女儿“上头”这一步,不仅包含着源远流长的传统意蕴,更包含着母亲对女儿出嫁的由衷祝福。
什么是“上头”?
严格来说,“上头”不只是指出嫁前母亲为新娘梳发挽髻,而是指整个头部打扮,包括开脸画眉,涂脂搽粉等。所谓“开脸”,指用细绒绞去新娘脸上的汗毛,使面部更为光洁,这是过去的一种美容方法,如今已经很少人这么做了。所以现在“上头”还保留下来的部分,就是梳头这一环节。
结婚前晚,选择一个吉时去拜神,拜天地,祈求幸福,并且会通知男方在同一时间拜。为新人“上头”的必须是“全福之人”(俗称“好命佬”和“好命婆”),即这人是六亲皆全、儿女满堂的有福之人。大户人家还会特意为此设宴请客,“上头”的隆重性可见一斑。此仪式表示子女自此真正长大成人。
准新娘必须在准新郎完成仪式后至少一小时才能进行此仪式. 仪式前, 准新人须以加入柚叶的水沐浴, 换上全新上头红或白色睡衣。仪式完成后, 准新人都不许站在屋外吸取雾气. 也不可以食用'上头鸡'也不许换其他服装。下一次换衣, 就是穿婚纱礼服的时候了. 准新人必须食用汤圆, 乘余的汤圆, 将分派给所有的亲朋好友一起分享, 象征互相建立良好人际关系.
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结婚上头说词:
一梳梳到尾,二梳我哋姑娘白发齐眉,三梳姑娘儿孙满地,四梳老爷行好运,出路相逢遇贵人,五梳五子登科来接契,五条银笋百样齐,六梳亲朋来助庆,香闺对镜染胭红,七梳七姐下凡配董永,鹊桥高架互轻平,八梳八仙来贺寿,宝鸭穿莲道外游,九梳九子连环样样有,十梳夫妻两老就到白头。
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不同籍贯的上头仪式,有不同的要求。 【广东、客家人】的礼节很相近,需要准备三个满的白米罐子,一把剪刀、一面镜子、一把尺、一些扁柏,一对梳子,三杯米酒,三杯茶,三碗汤圆(每碗九颗)、一只鸡、一片猪肉、一些水果,最后点上龙凤烛和三支香。男女双方各自在家中同时进行,用柚子叶水冲过凉后,穿上全新的睡衣,由“好命人”(家庭美满,有儿有孙的长辈)帮新人用梳子梳头。但是现在也有让父亲为新郎上头,母亲为新娘上头的。梳头的时候,要一面梳,一面说好句仪式完成后,新人与家人或者亲戚一起共享汤圆,但是不可以把鸡吃掉。
【福建、潮州人】的仪式,通常需要准备十二片“红龟粿”、十二捆系上红纸的面线、 三把不同形状的梳子、三朵假华(1朵白, 2朵红)插入装满米的罐子里、一条红色长线缠绕八圈、一块煮熟涂上红粉的猪颈部份的肉、一面镜子、一把剪刀、一个锁头、两枚硬币、两粒鸡蛋和一些煮熟的面线。男女双方各自在家中同时进行,用柚子叶水冲过凉后,穿上全新的睡衣,由“好命人”或者父母为新人在睡房里,用三把梳子,各梳三次,然后将桌上的锁头锁上。仪式完成后,新人跟好命人一起吧鸡蛋和面线吃了。
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上头仪式必备品: - 龙凤烛 Long Feng Candle(龙凤呈祥,点旺香火) - 龙凤香 Long Feng Incense - 四喜多子福 Generation babies(寓意多子多福。) - 子孙尺 Progeny Ruler(子孙丈量万倾良田之尺) - 剪刀 Scissors(比翼双飞,寓意新人婚后绫罗绸缎、前程似锦,共享人生富贵荣华。) - 花好月圆镜 Mirror(圆圆满满,新人婚姻幸福美满) - 如意红头绳 Red Rope(月老绳) - 吉祥梳 Comb(结发夫妻白头偕老,永结同心。) - 针线 Needle with Thread(持家有道) - 海棠粉 Begonia Pink -上头睡衣 Pyjamas -扁柏 Cypress
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